Friday, 12 February 2016

Believe it or not potty training doesn't have to be stressful!

Of all the stages of raising a child, the one that us parents dread the most is potty training. It’s not that we don’t want to give our children one of the most essential life skills, it’s that we worry that maybe we’re not up to the challenge. After all, there’s a lot more to potty training than meets the eye. Plus, potty training can be messy, which can make leaving the house with your little one a bit of a nightmare.
While potty training your toddler can be incredibly difficult, it doesn’t have to be. Each child might be different when it comes to potty training, but there are plenty of ways you can make the process easier. For all the best tips and tricks for potty training success, keep reading. Hopefully, this guide will make teaching your toddler to use the potty a little less stressful.
Choose a method
First and foremost, you need to choose a method of potty training. This can be tricky as every child is different. However, as you’re the person who knows your child best, you should be able to work out which potty training method will be best for them. It may be a case of trial and error, but that’s all part of the potty training process. If one method doesn’t work for you and your child, swap to another one. A method that’s popular at the moment is the three-day potty training program. A method that you can find out more about at This quick type of potty training is said to have amazing results, so it’s definitely worth a try.
Buy a potty
Whatever you do, don’t attempt to put your child straight onto the toilet. Instead, buy a potty for them to use, as this is easier and less daunting. Potty seats come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, some resemble actual toilets, and others are shaped like animals or cars. To encourage your child to use their potty, why not allow them to choose which one they want? The chances are if you let your little girl have a sparkly pink potty, she’ll be more likely to use it. I found some really useful information on choosing the right potty seat online. There are reviews you can read through to help you decide.

Be patient
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The most important thing that you can do to make potty training easier is be patient with your child. Learning to use the potty instead of going to the toilet in a diaper is a big change and one that it can take your little one some time to adjust to. You may need to take potty training in different stages, which is why being patient is so important. For instance, at first, you may need to take your child to the toilet every 10 minutes. And then eventually, you can start to spread out the time between toilet trips. This might make outings a little difficult, but it’s worth the effort, I promise.
Do what works for you
If the potty training method you’re using needs a little editing, that’s fine. What’s important is to do what works for you and your child. To learn more about the different methods parents use, check out If you find that your little one is better at telling you when they need the toilet if they’re not wearing a nappy, take it off. Some parents find that naked potty training makes life easier, as your child will be more likely to tell you when they need the toilet. Once your toddler has mastered naked potty training, you can then start to put clothes on them. Start with just pants, and then slowly add more and more layers until they’re fully dressed
Get your timing right
The truth is that when it comes to potty training, your child has to be ready. You’ve probably had other parents tell you that your child will stop using diapers once he or she is good and ready. While this can be reassuring, it’s easy to wonder what happens if they’re never ready. At some point or another, your child will be ready, I promise you. It might take a few attempts, but don’t get put off, sooner or later they’ll master potty training. A good indicator that he or she is ready is that when they go to the toilet in their diaper, they tell you. Some children take longer than others to get to grips with potty training, and that’s fine. Remember, everyone does things at different speeds. If you worry about it and try to force your child to use the potty before they’re ready, you’ll make things a lot more stressful than they have to be.
Invest in pull-ups
This might seem like a step backward, but it’s not. For outings and car journeys, putting your child in pull-ups is crucial. It’s embarrassing for your child if they soil themselves when they're out and about. So it’s best to put them in pull-ups so that any little accidents don’t set them back. It’s still important to encourage your child to tell you when they need the toilet and use a potty, but having pull ups on can make outings less stressful. Obviously, it's still important to take them to the bathroom as often as you’ve been doing at home to keep the routine in place.
Reward them
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One of the most important parts of potty training is rewarding your child when they use the potty. You’ll find that if your child knows that they’ll get a treat for using the toilet, they’re more likely to make an effort. Be it their favorite sweet treat or a sticker for their sticker chart, it doesn’t matter, just as long as it’s something they want. It could even be small amounts of money for their piggy bank - it’s about finding the thing that appeals to your child most. If you’re unsure what they would like for each time they use the toilet, ask them.

Potty training might not be the easiest part of your child becoming a toddler, but it doesn’t have to be the most difficult. Take these tips on board, and you can make potty training much less stressful.

1 comment:

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